Lovering H.

$20.00 / hr

At the age of 10, I landed my first job as summer companion to Catherine DeForest, my maternal grandmother. Unsurprisingly, the work of companion to the family matriarch required copious amounts of physical labor - my grandmother was elderly - but the experience also involved inklings of a new and unexpected pleasure - the gratifications of responsibility. My grandmother, who was from New York, arrived at Glendale Cottage on Lake Winnipesaukee, on the first day of summer. Over a period of 12 years, I joined her there. I cleared the acorns from the grasses of her double croquet court, hiked each morni ng, shopping list in one hand, bills and change in the other, to the corner store to buy her groceries, and rowed her, my grandmother did not drive an automobile, across Smith's Cove to tea at the homes of neighbors. Her training served me well. From my grandmother I learned to be a responsible member of a household. I learned to be good company. Still under my grandmother's spell I enjoy being secretary and companion to the mobile elderly. ... more

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    $6.51Taxes & Fees
    $26.51You pay

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Live-in Companion

Barbara McCauley

Feb 2014 - Present

Companion, meal preparation, errands and shopping, medical appointments, bathing and dressing, asistance with personal care, and light housekeeping.


Live-In Companion

Mrs. Betty Messier

Jan 2012 - Jan 2013

This past year I lived in the delightful company of Betty Messier, 83, on Lake Wampanoag in Coventry, CT. I gardened with Mrs. Messier, prepared her meals, escorted her to appointments, shopped for her groceries and clothing, was her partner at afternoon bridge, and enjoyed many small conversations with her over ‘elevenses’ and tea. A gracious and charming woman living in a large and formal house, she was surrounded by family wh o were her frequent weekend guests. ... more


Live-In Companion and Interim Manager Penury Hall B&B

Mrs. Prentice Strong, Jr.

Jan 2010 - Jan 2011

I prepared Mrs. Strong's meals, gardened with her, shopped for Penury Hall groceries, ran errands, greeted guests, advised guests on local restaurants, galleries, yacht charter, made guest reservations, guided guests to local trails and other natural attractions, prepared guest breakfasts, and maintained both Mrs. Strong's and Penury Hall's financial accounts.


Live-In Secretary and Companion

The Honorable David C. Allison

Jun 2005 - Jul 2010

I provided Mr. Allison, an 82 year old widow, with cash flow projections (his wife had been the family accountant), hired his housekeeper and groundsman, paid his bills, and gathered the information for his accountant for the preparation of his annual IRS returns. In addition, I prepared his meals, shopped for his clothes and groceries, kept his Netflix queue (he was a film buff), purchased for him political best sellers (he was a 12-year elected member of the NH General Court) assisted him in his role as host at teas and luncheons (he had been a community volunteer), escorted him to appointments and social events, reviewed with him the daily editions of the Wall Street Journal and the New York Times (Mr. Allison was a former editor at Business Week), and otherwise kept him company. ... more


Live-In Companion

Phyllis Paradis

Jan 2010 - Jan 2010

After the death of Mr. Allison in 2010, I lived with the unusually beautiful and magnetic Phyllis Johnson Paradis, in Bass Harbor, Mount Desert Island, Maine. Mrs. Paradis, the matriarch of an old Philadelphia family, had summered for many years on Great Gott’s Island, off the coast of Maine, but had settled in nearby Bass Harbor on Mount Desert Island, to be near medical care. A genuine American hero, Mrs. Paradis, 92, was one o f one thousand women aviators who volunteered to fly United States Army fighter and bomber aircraft on delivery flights during World War II. Although Mrs. Paradis saw no enemy action, she and her fellow Women’s Air Service Pilots were “fly girls” no less skilled and daring than their male equivalents, i.e., WWII fighter and bomber pilots who flew combat missions in the European and South Pacific theaters. In recognition of her service, Congress recently awarded Mrs. Paradis the Congressional Medal of Honor. I maintained a 24-hour responsible presence at her house, assisted her in her shopping for groceries and clothing, assisted her in the preparation of light meals, and drove her to medical appointments and to lunch. My greatest contribution to her well-being was the time I spent persuading her to accept the installation of a pacemaker. ... more


Live-In Companion

Mrs. Richard McGowan

Jan 2004 - Jan 2005

Mrs. Willa Richardson McGowan, an 82-year old widow, lived at the Richardson Homestead, a former dairy farm on the north shore of Great Pond in the Belgrade Lakes Region of Maine. Although in good physical health, Mrs. McGowan suffered from memory disorders, aggravated by the loss of family and friends. I organized for her a social life, i.e., a daily framework of regularly scheduled breakfasts or luncheons in town and luncheons and suppers at her house with relatives and friends. In the management of her small estate, I hired repairs to the furnace, to the septic system, and to the sills. In addition, I kept her household accounts and coordinated with her housekeeper on the completion of household tasks. ... more


Live-In Secretary and Companion

Lincoln Webster Burnham

Jan 1989 - Jan 2001

I learned most of my companion skills during the twelve years I lived at Burnham Farm in Dunbarton, New Hampshire, in the employ of Lincoln Webster Burnham, who was himself good company. In 1989, Mr. Burnham had retired from both his produce business and his dairy business. At the age of 82, he was an active gardener and enjoyed a small career as a public speaker. I was his personal assistant. In that role I kept his speaking calendar, researched for him local history, and wrote his speeches—not from the whole cloth, but from information in his memoirs. In addition, I drove Mr. Burnham, a bachelor, to his speaking engagements and to church, accompanied him to his social engagements, planned his social events, shopped for his clothes and groceries, and, after his housekeeper left for the day, prepared his evening meal. In 1995, after Mr. Burnham suffered a stroke, I hired a young man to assist him with his morning care each and, as his health declined (he died in 2001), added assistance as needed. My last effort on his behalf was to arrange for his funeral. ... more


Environmental Studies

2001 - 2005 Yellow Springs OH



2000 - 2001 Manchester NH

Hampshire College


1998 - 2000 Amherst MA