In 1981, when I was a five-year-old child, my mother became gravely sick with an illness her doctors could not diagnose. She often spent four to five months at a time in the hospital, recover enough to come home, but would fall ill again and again with no explanations. This went on for approximately seven years. During the time my mom was home my two sisters, brother, and I did everything we could to make her comfortable that we were capable of doing as children. Yet, seeing my mom in pain and so much discomfort instilled within me a tremendous sense of empathy and compassion. Despite the short periods of time she spent at home between hospitalizations, I developed a deep sense of appreciation for my mother because I missed her terribly. Thankfully, she finally came home and the relief was immense.
My grandmother lived with us for 15 years due to her deteriorating health as a result of diabetes, cataracts, loss of hearing, and the loss of the ability to clothe and prepare her own food. I helped to dress her in the morning, attend to her left foot which she almost lost to gangrene. But we managed to heal it and she only lost her left big toe. She was still able to walk albeit with a walking chair. I loved to bake so I would make special desserts for her which she was allowed small portions. It was a great activity for us to bond together. She could watch me make it and give me tips.
In college, I became a Caregiver for a quadriplegic man. Although, I didn't have experience caring for a paralyzed man, Michael told me he would explain what he needed on the job. My morning shift started at 7AM and I bathed his nude body, medicated his bedsores, emptied his catheter, performed physical therapy, and fed him his breakfast. If he had chores to complete during my shift, I'd dress him then move him from his bed to his wheelchair and into in his van. Once we finished his chores, I would put him back in his bed, remove his clothing, and clean his apartment.
There has been an unconditional love in my heart for people And animals . I would care for family and Friends when I was young, a care that never stopped Animals, smoking, incontinence, nothing really bothers me.
My mother had severe epilepsy, My father and late husband had cancer, my grandmother had polio and lived 22 yrs in cast iron lung ,Aunt had genetic thyroid problems, crippling arthritis could not walk .
Also diabetes , learn to cook special foods. Confined to wheelchair, transferring To and from for toilet And showers.
customers with Dementia, Parkinson's, Alzheimer's, Autism lead me to training dogs for disabilites above situations. I watch , monitor and ease pain confusion and fear that comes with problems. I can and do handle all the situations that are to much for most. I do it with compassion ,love, respect and leave them with dignity and respect. I am here! The joy I brought to my grandmother when I would spend time talking with her and helping her with errands and those simple tasks, like cooking or walking she once could do on her own was very rewarding to me. At that point in my life at the age sixteen I knew I would become a care giver.
Being a care giver is very rewarding . It brings so much joy into your life when you see Those who need help happy.
I go the extra mile in everything I do. For example, there was a time when I was taking care of a woman who was bed bound. I worked with her for months and she started to walk and the family was very proud of both of us.
I'm a very hard working person who is caring, compassionate, and honest; someone you can trust and rely on. I'm funny and easy going.
Letters of recommendations:
My name is Karen Withers and I’m writing about the care given to my mother for nearly a year by Alan Lauscher. My mom was injured during a surgery in June of 2011 and has needed 24 hour care. Alan has provided loving, consistent, skilled nursing care to my mother. Alan performed all nursing duties including but not limited to medication, hygiene, toileting, food preparation, wound care, etc.
We can whole heartedly recommend Alan for the care of any patient you need care for.
Please feel free to contact me for more information at firstname.lastname@example.org or 512-388-1430.
Sincerely, Karen Withers